Twitter Weekly Update 2012–December–09

“It takes less time to do a right thing than to explain why you did it wrong”~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow RT @vilaw
Adversarial divorce leads to deterioration of self-esteem and loss of the ability to learn or become close to another person. 2 better ways! RT@RonaldSupancic
Payroll tax increases 0.9% on incomes over $200K and on investment income beginning 1/1/2013 to help fund #Medicare http://nyti.ms/YYSnej
Divorced parents: If your ex makes an error; don’t put them on the defensive or jump to conclusions. MT @RosalindSedacca
Johnson County Bar Ass’n Family Law Bench-Bar Committee Annual Holiday Party –Wednesday, December 12 @ 5pm http://bit.ly/RhUPdN
#KSLegislature: Conservative Lawmakers hear arguments for changing #KSCourts selection process at legislative retreat http://bit.ly/XCG5YA
Ware tells lawmakers that lawyers should have no role in picking judicial nominating commission. #ksleg RT@bradc25
Ware says moving to federal system for picking judges could be vulnerable politically. #ksleg RT@bradc25
KULaw Prof Ware says he thinks good chance #KSLegislature will change judicial selection process following 2012 elections MT@bradc25
Incoming #KSSenate Majority Leader Terry Bruce says #KSLegislature will have “ambitious” and “powerful” agenda this year. MT @BrentWistrom
#TNCourts: Tenn. Business Valuation Expert’s Report Must Be Submitted at Trial http://fb.me/1MOGp9yAL RT @Memphis_Divorce
Supreme Court’s Options Are Open in Same-Sex Marriage Cases–Likely Finding No Standing by Petitioners http://bit.ly/RhkMKG
With high-conflict people, the issue is not the issue – their personality is the issue. http://bit.ly/PVJadr RT@HighConflict
Fascinating chronology on the changes in States’ recognition of marriage & intimate partner rights http://bit.ly/RI5FcV
#SCOTUS Accepts Certiorari in Hollingsworth v Perry – http://bit.ly/11TjXto [@SCOTUSblog Coverage] #Prop8
#SCOTUS accepts Certiorari in Windsor v. US – http://bit.ly/11TjqHG [@SCOTUSblog Coverage] #DOMA
US Supreme Court will hear 2 same-sex marriage cases: #DOMAand #Prop8 http://wapo.st/VoDtYk Good cases, great attorneys.
Breaking News! The governor’s office has announced that CMS approved KanCare waiver application. KanCare WILL move forward 1/1/13 as planned. RT@KACAP_KS
High Conflict People blame somebody else—almost anybody—when things don’t go well for them. http://www.highconflictinstitute.com/blog/?p=976 RT @HighConflict
Kansas gets permission from the federal government for the overhaul of its #Medicaid program. http://bit.ly/VsP9ce RT@APjdhanna #KanCare
#SCOTUS grants certiorari on two cases dealing with #DOMA, same-sex marriage http://1.usa.gov/RHX3Di #Prop8 #Windsor
Can I stop child support in the state of Kansas since my daughter is now 18? #childsupport http://rpx.me/1/WTdj
Can I refuse a Judge’s Order for Supervised Visitation with my child? #childcustody http://rpx.me/1/aEdj
California Court rejects findings by CPS that man who smoked pot outside the presence infant son endangered child. http://bit.ly/UKkf2E
#KSCourts: @WashburnLaw Professor (and former Dean) Jim Concannon will receive Supreme Court Justice Award 12/14/2012 http://bit.ly/YV2uRp
#KSCourts: Appeals Ct disagrees with decision made in Marriage of Wood, http://bit.ly/YV0TLe on post-marital agreements http://bit.ly/11RthxF
Good question: When should I apply for Medicare? We generally advise to apply 3 months before age 65. Full answer at http://ow.ly/fUAft RT‏@SocialSecurity
Psychiatrists To Take New Approach In Bereavement http://www.npr.org/2012/12/06/166682774/psychiatrists-to-take-new-approach-in-bereavement … RT @AACAP
#KSCourts: A post-marital agreement is not “drafted in contemplation of divorce” if no then current intent to divorce http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: Lawyer held to self-drafted post-marital agreement granting all property to wife if divorce ever occurred http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: Trial court erred in finding that post-marital agreement was a separation agreement and encouraged divorce http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: 6 stds for post-marital agreements: #counsel, #voluntary,#disclosure, #waiver, #reasonable, #conscionable http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: Appeals Court enunciates the appropriate standard for enforceability of post-marital agreements http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: No #Kansas statute governs post-marital agreements where parties plan to stay married after agreement http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: #UPAA precludes enforcement of pre-marital agreement if it was unconscionable or involuntary when signed http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: #UPAA precludes enforcement of agreement if signed without adequate disclosure of assets http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: #UPAA governs pre-marital agreements in #Kansas for couples planning to marry http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: Pre- or post-marital agreements not encouraging divorce consistent with public policy encouraging agreement http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: Pre- or post-marital agreement promotes divorce if it obligates spouse to procure divorce or not defend one http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: Neither pre- nor post-marital agreements are contrary to public policy, except when they promote divorce http://bit.ly/11RthxF
#KSCourts: 1 Published Kansas #FamilyLaw Appeals Decision Issued Today (2012-December-07) http://bit.ly/PHOljc
Updated Page: Kansas Family Law Appeals 2012 http://bit.ly/PHOljc
“It is better to offer no excuse than a bad one”~@foundingfather
#VTCourts: Trial court improperly delegated authority over parent-child contact to non-court third parties http://bit.ly/QMPt8M
Divorcing Parents: a MUST listen from @StoryCorps http://n.pr/QMLWYj
When a conflict with your ex arises, be a good listener. Disagreement=misunderstanding. http://ow.ly/fyPij MT @RosalindSedacca
Three years after parents’ #divorce, a son looks back. http://n.pr/QMLWYj [@NPR]
“Children seldom misquote you. In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn’t have said.” via @ElizbethLManess
Dr. Wes #Divorce Rule 11: Find a therapist who is specialized in divorce & custody matters. RT@wescrenshawphd
Lesbian Couple Of 35 Years Finally Obtains Washington State Marriage License http://sns.mx/qDnBy8
Washington Couples Start Getting Marriage Licenses (PHOTOS) http://huff.to/WMvG7 http://www.gilsig.ca RT @MarlaGilsig
You’ll never have a peaceful marriage [or life] until you’re at peace with yourself. MT @MarriageVelcro
#KanCare choice period extended to 90 days http://cjonline.com/news/2012-12-06/kancare-choice-period-extended-90-days#.UMDyY8u84yg.twitter … RT @andymarso
When #FamilyLaw Intersects with Education: Is Your School Caught In Child Custody Dispute? http://bit.ly/VpNkNa via @Family_Law
I was divorced in Iowa my son now wants to live with me in know if he can move in with me and away from his other parent. #ageofconsent http://rpx.me/1/k8bj
I pay my child support faithfully but mother still refuses to let me see my child. What can I do? #fathercustody http://rpx.me/1/B6bj
If kids lived in Kansas for 8 years, but Oklahoma still claims jurisdiction over them what can I do? #familylaw http://rpx.me/1/_1bj
Finally, an intelligent article about the arguments-and issues-before#SCOTUS in #Hague #Abduction case heard 12/05/12http://bit.ly/TMvHb3
How do I file a QDRO on my own and where can I get the form? #qdro http://rpx.me/1/XUbj
#SCOTUS receives new, basic marriage equality case from Nevada. But will it accept? http://bit.ly/TJWaIs
#KSLegislature: Incoming #KSSenate President Wagle tells @AP that she’s interested in reopening legislative redistricting. MT@APjdhanna
Couples who feel understood by one another often feel emotionally connected and secure about the relationship. RT @RelationshipAid
There are now 35 additional Compassionate Allowances conditions. For a list of the 200 expedited conditions, visit http://ow.ly/fSq8J [@SocialSecurity]
The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty~Winston Churchill RT@divorce2dating
#KSLegislature: #Kansas Legislative Year in Review from @GaveltoGavel http://goo.gl/fb/euCYE
#Medicare Open Enrollment Period Ends Friday, December 7 http://www.kansaspublicradio.org/news/health-news/5467-medicare-open-enrollment-period-ends-friday … MT @kprthompson
If your stepchild says disrespectful things about the other parent, don’t join the bandwagon. MT @wescrenshawphd
#KSLegislature: New #KSHouse Speaker will soon make committee assignments. http://bit.ly/11KmIx2
Randy Kessler (@GADivorce) on Wisconsin judge’s order that ‘deadbeat dad’ can’t procreate: http://bit.ly/11KiUvA [@HLNTV]
We don’t choose misfortune, failure, sickness, heartbreak, tragedy, etc. Our reaction to it, however, is 100% entirely our choice. RT@smt0319
Sadly, too many people are confusing issues before #SCOTUS yesterday in #Chafin. It’s about jurisdiction, not custody. http://bit.ly/YRpkZW
Congress passes ’21st Century Language Act’ eliminating the word “lunatic” from federal laws. Finally. http://wapo.st/YE7tHh #mentalhealth
Group Asks #SCOTUS To Take Appeal Finding Nevada Same-Sex Marriage Ban Valid Seeking To Avoid Appeals Court http://bit.ly/11HEyAy
RT @HighConflict: Setting limits with HCPs is neither passive nor aggressive, it’s assertive. http://lnkd.in/T9bYWu
Washington State marriage equality starts tomorrow http://bit.ly/SGVbZR
When couples divorce but still run the business together: http://nyti.ms/XrIu8q RT@nytimes
You aren’t getting back at your ex when you tell your kids bad things about the ex. You are only ruining the kids. RT@divorcedwkids
How to cope with chaos, economic or otherwise http://on.apa.org/11UtmQj Psychologists say it’s difficult to tolerate uncertainty RT @APA
Understanding anger, overcoming #anxiety http://ht.ly/fQgHY RT@drb_angermgt via @APAHelpCenter
The Extraordinary Demands Placed On Parents Raising #Asperger’s Kids http://ow.ly/fH6Fy via @SpecialPlanning #ASD
#SCOTUS Struggles with International Abduction Law and Mootness http://n.pr/SH4AR8 [@NPR]
Transcript of Today’s U.S. Supreme Court Oral Arguments in#Hague Abduction “Mootness” Case (Chafin v Chafin): http://1.usa.gov/SH3u7J
RIP Dave Brubeck http://n.pr/11UK8Pq
Testing and the Same-sex Marriage Cases: http://bit.ly/TFeu6l RT@SCOTUSblog
Making Permanent Digital Records Not So Permanent http://n.pr/UmVA1N
What is the difference between #narcissism and authentic self-esteem? http://bit.ly/UmSmeA via @PsychToday
U.S. Senate Rejects @UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (2006) 61-38 http://1.usa.gov/Sw2ySj
Atlanta City Council Passes Marriage Equality Resolution. http://bit.ly/TAH7y9 RT @HRC
#Autism Diagnosis will see significant changes under #DSM5: http://bit.ly/Sw1I89 via @theautismnews
#NJCourts: False claims that father molested child found to constitute “abuse or neglect” http://bit.ly/SvZENE
Wisconsin judge orders father of 9, who is behind on #childsupport, to stop having children. http://bit.ly/SvYjq2
@APAPsychiatric Removes “Gender Identity Disorder” From Updated Mental Health Guide http://www.glaad.org/blog/apa-removes-gender-identity-disorder-updated-mental-health-guide …
#DSM5 will no longer classify #transgender as a “gender identity disorder” http://p.ink.cx/SJKNi9
In co-parenting, goal is for the peace and happiness of the children. When making decisions, keep the best interest of the kids at heart. RT@CafeSmom
New Kansas legislative leaders selected: Susan Wagle as Senate president; Ray Merrick as House speaker. http://bit.ly/SHyV09 #ksleg RT@APjdhanna
Mental Illness on the Job: Surviving Mental Health Stigma http://ow.ly/fNJSJ RT @HealthyPlace
Too often domestic violence turns deadly: http://bit.ly/RyYO5v Be aware, be safe.
News: Twitter Weekly Update 2012–December-02 http://bit.ly/QEqjta
Texas Supreme Court welcomes Justice Jeff Boyd. @JusticeWillettVIA @SCOTXblog @TexParteBlog @HowAppealing http://t.co/1loKXS0TRT
#KSLegislature: Wagle elected #KSSenate president; Merrick elected #KSHouse Speaker http://bit.ly/11IIro7
#KSLegislature: Ray Merrick voted Speaker of #KSHouse http://bit.ly/RxiKWq
Capitol is open with legislators milling around! It’s beginning to look a lot like session! #ksleg RT@KansasBarLeg
#KSLegislature: Chambers are selecting leadership today, candidates for Speaker are all from Johnson County: Merrick, Siegfreid, Kinzer
#SCOTUS arguments this Wednesday over effect of child’s return on appeal in #Hague #Abduction Proceedings http://bit.ly/ZzZEzX
Keeping holiday joyous in divided family. http://ow.ly/fLaws RT@divorcestlouis
Do you have a loved one who passed away this year? Share a photo & story about that person’s life: http://nyti.ms/VjWq3U RT@nytimes
#DSM5 will remove multi-axial system used in #DSM4 combining Axes I, II, III with separate notations for IV & V
New #DSM5 #Autism Spectrum Disorder (#ASD) includes criteria for autistic disorder, Asperger’s, childhood disintegrative disorder, & PDD.
Not Accepted for inclusion in #DSM5: Anxious depression, Hypersexual disorder, Parental alienation syndrome (#PAS), Sensory processing disorder
Marriage a “quick path” to citizenship for immigrants? Wrong. http://bit.ly/X1ACtY @Publici
Monday is International Day of Persons with Disabilities. http://bit.ly/RovyOW @UN_Enable
Positive language habits can turn your marriage and other relationships around http://bit.ly/elKQqu MT @hitchedmedia
Courts: Egyptian Supreme Court suspends operations because of threatening actions by President, Populace. http://nyti.ms/Ve3uJk
Psychologists: Playing can be therapeutic, but counseling is key http://usat.ly/QYuhOB
Suicide Prevention and Domestic Violence Resources in Kansas City and nationwide: http://bit.ly/VkEMJq
.@APAPsychiatric Board of Trustees approves #DSM5 http://goo.gl/ZeeOm

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